FAQs and expert advice about flowers & bouquets

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Flowers & Bouquets

 

Freshly picked ideas

Freshly picked ideas

Q. What should I ask a florist before booking?

A. Annabel Grange says: Before booking you should find out how long the company have been in business. It's essential that your supplier has a high level of training and experience to make sure your day runs smoothly.

A good florist will usually have a website as well as social media pages. These should include reviews and recommendations from previous clients and photos of their previous work.

Make sure they are local and don't have to travel hours to your venue. Be very wary of companies online that don't show their location or are based hours away.

Find a knowledgeable and understanding supplier. They should listen to what you would like and put your ideas into reality.

Have an initial phone call, then meet up or video call to give them a detailed list of your requirements. Provide the supplier with any pictures that you like or colour samples and ask what they would suggest, and see if their ideas are what you're looking for.

Provide details and pictures of the dress you have chosen – this can affect the shape and style of your bouquet.

Ask what flowers are in season to keep the cost reasonable, and if you have an unusual colour scheme, ask what the florist recommends. I recommend mixing silk flowers that are not in season with those that are to help keep the cost down.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Fall in love

Fall in love

Q. What flowers and colours would you suggest for an autumn wedding?

A. Annabel Grange says: As the summer fades into autumn, the variety of fresh flowers change, and the new, seasonal colours allow us to create fabulous floral displays.

If you'd like an eco-friendly bouquet, dried grasses and leaves with pampas grass and some silk flowers are on trend at the moment. If a particfular flower is not in season, I would use silk and add it into the other fresh flowers – no one ever know they are not real.

Tall martini vases are fab when decorated with a variety of seasonal flowers. Alternatively, look for shorter decorations made using various greenery and flowers in a more relaxed design. Black, iron candelabra with deep autumnal flowers and bronze or gold table runners, with a slight sparkle will create a rich, sumptuous look.

Pumpkins in all shapes and sizes can be used to line the aisle or they can be scattered along the tables.

Place garlands along the top table or down the centre of any long guest tables. Opt for just greenery or add pops of colour with candles or LED lights.

Incorporate arches into the ceremony or behind the top table draped with seasonal greenery and amaranthus flowers.

Make the most of any features in the venue. Decorate a staircase with a flower garland or swags of organza and ribbons.

Lighting is critical, so think about LED lights placed around trees outside or bannister rails. Uplighters in an orange, purple or red tone creates a great atmosphere.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Seasonal romance

Seasonal romance

Q. What flowers are popular for spring weddings?

A. Monika Cruse says: Spring brides are blessed with beautiful blooms to choose from. Five of our favourites are:

- Daffodils are the quintessential spring flower! This trumpet-like bloom is available in shades of white, yellow, coral and orange.

- Nothing says spring like a big bunch of tulips. These versatile beauties are known for their distinct shape and vibrant colours. Heritage versions such as double tulips, parrot tulips, peony tulips or those with gorgeous frilly edges work well in bouquets, arrangements and buttonholes.

- Hyacinths have fragrant flowering bulbs that come in a wide variety of colours. Brides who would like blue flowers but want the real thing, not tinted blooms, should consider hyacinths. Its smaller cousin, muscari, is a great choice for buttonholes.

- Iris is made up of three outer petals, encapsulating three inner petals which stand upright. Available in purple, blue, yellow and white, it's the inspiration for the fleur-de-lis symbol.

- Ranunculus has dense layers of paper-like petals. These romantic beauties come in lots of gorgeous colours, from bright and bold to soft pastel tones. No matter which wedding colours you've chosen, there will most likely be a ranunculus in a suitable shade!

Monika Cruse, Flowers for Florists
flowersforflorists.co.uk

 

Hello petal

Hello petal

Q. I'm getting married next May and want to incorporate seasonal flowers into our décor. Do you have any ideas?

A. Annabel Grange says: There are a variety of flowers available in May – both seasonal and those on offer from importers.

Tulips look lovely and are available in a wide range of colours. Ranunculus and roses, with their many layers of petals, are a standard choice for all weddings. Delicate flowers such as freesias, anemones, hyacinths, Lily of the valley and muscari also look wonderful. There are a host of other flowers which can be used with the above, including gypsophila, alstroemeria, carnations, eustoma, gerbera and solidago.

The style, age, lighting and colours of your venue will be very important when discussing the types of table decorations and flowers for your wedding. For example, high ceilings look great with tall centrepieces, older venues may not look good with modern designs, and lower ceilings look nice with shorter displays.

Make the most of any features in the venue, such as decorating a staircase with a flower garland or swags of organza and ribbons.

For the top table and centrepieces, short vases with a selection of spring flowers and greenery in a natural style will create a seasonal feel. Tulips packed in tightly to form a 'box' is effective. Fishbowls can also be used with the flowers standing up out of the bowl in the centre.

There are so many choices - talk to your florist to find your ideal style.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Colour pop

Colour pop

Q. I'd love to incorporate Pantone's colour of the year, Very Peri, into my flowers. Do you have any ideas of how I could do this without it being overpowering?

A. Annabel Grange says: Periwinkle blue is one of the trending colours for 2022 and 2023. This soft tone between blue and purple means that you can easily incorporate different shades into your wedding flowers. If you want to add just a hint of the Very Peri without it being overpowering, I would use a base of ivory white flowers and incorporate some pale blue and/or lilac tones.

There are several flowers available depending on the season you're getting married in. Hydrangeas come in both lilac and pale blue and are perfect in bouquets and table centres, but remember they are water-loving flowers and will need a lot of hydration to stay looking their best! Alternatively, look for delphiniums, agapanthus, blue grape hyacinth, roses, alstroemeria, freesias, Veronica, gerberas, hydrangeas, agapanthus, eustomas, lavender, tulips and carnations to name but a few.

For a softer look, I would use eucalyptus greenery rather than darker shades, this is a lovely bluey grey leaf and works perfectly with the pastel shades. I also often use artificial flowers mixed into fresh flowers if an unusual colour is required – they blend in and look natural.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Seasonal florals

Seasonal florals

Q. We're getting married next autumn and would love to incorporate the season's colours into our flowers. What do you suggest we look for?

A. Annabel Grange says: As the summer fades into autumn the varieties of fresh flowers and colours change, allowing us to create fabulous floral displays. Reds, burgundies, oranges, peaches and browns are the traditional colours, but there are various pallets to choose from. If you have your heart set on dusky pink and ivory whites, add some pale brown, taupe leaves and berries to create an autumn feel.

Looking for more unusual deeper tones? Go for red, burgundy, dark pink and some chocolate cosmos or dark aubergine calla lilies with greenery. For a softer feel peach with soft oranges, ivory and greenery look lovely. If your favourite bloom is not in season, I would use silk and add it to the other fresh flowers.

For your centrepieces, tall martini vases with a variety of seasonal flowers and amaranthus flowing down look great. Sunflowers and grasses in tall vases are also a simple but very effective country-style design. Use lots of greenery and flowers for shorter centrepieces, finished with tealights in holders on the tables. Alternatively, black iron candelabra with deep autumnal coloured blooms look stunning.

When it comes to your décor, opt for table runners in bronzes or golds with a slight sparkle. Black runners or table overlays paired with red centrepieces create a wow effect.

Use pumpkins to line the aisle or scatter them on the tables. Place garlands along the top table or down the centre of a guest table. Choose just greenery or add pops of colour with candles or LED lights.

Make the most of any features in the venue. Decorate a staircase with a flower garland or swags of organza and ribbons.

Think about LED lights around bushes, trees, pillars, bannister rails or add them into flower displays. Uplighters in orange, purple or red can create a great atmosphere.

Chair sashes or hoods will immediately add more colour to the room.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Darling buds

Darling buds

Q. I love the colour blue and want to incorporate the hue into our wedding flowers. What blooms do you suggest we look for?

A. Kimberley Binns says: What's not to love about the colour blue? Not only does it represent the sky and sea, but it also means trust, loyalty and sincerity – a perfect reason to choose this hue for such a special occasion. When it comes to selecting your wedding flowers, you may come across one too many artificial sprayed carnations or roses online. Thankfully, there are a variety of natural blue shades, tints and textures to choose from with no spray can insight.

Start with gesture blooms, there are hydrangeas, delphiniums, alliums, larkspurs and tweedia, each available in a variety of textures and shades. These can be lifted with filler options such as clematis, Nigella seed heads, forget-me-nots and thistles.

Blue also works with different shades such as ivory, peach, soft pinks and lavender. Why not also add in some sage colours such as green hanging amaranthus to add further texture to hanging centrepieces and cascading bouquets?

Kimberley Binns, Ginger & Wild Flower Co
www.gingerandwild.uk

 

Floral wonder

Floral wonder

Q. What questions should we ask our florist before booking?

A. Annabel Grange says: Here are the most important questions you should ask:

- What experience do they have, and how long has the company been going?

- Do they arrange the flowers themselves or subcontract them?

- Do they have a portfolio, reviews and letters of recommendation you can see?

- What flowers would they recommend for the time of year you're getting married, and are there any that aren't in season?

- Do they charge extra for vases and candelabra hire, or is the loan included? Do they collect any loaned items, or do you need to return them?

- Have they worked at your venue before, and do they deliver everything there?

- Do they have public liability insurance?

- Can you collect the bouquets the day before?

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Floral wonders

Floral wonders

Q. My wife-to-be and I are going for a relaxed bohemian theme for our wedding, but don't know where to start with our flowers – what would you suggest?

A. Kimberley Binns says: Work with a floral designer whose approach reflects your ideas and influences. If you're looking for a bohemian style wedding, go for a florist that offers bold, wild and rustic designs.

Select a supplier that uses British flowers and foliage instead of mass-produced versions. This will give you a wonderful variety to choose from, providing you with high-quality arrangements and a guaranteed fragrance that will set the tone and theme for your day.

Although working with seasonal options may have limitations with availability, the joy in this is that there are so many alternatives. Your florist can introduce you to local blooms that are more likely to be available from a smaller number of suppliers, as they are easier to source, better quality and higher value. Suppliers that work with local companies will state this on their website and have a sustainable angle to their business.

Kimberley Binns, Ginger & Wild Flower Co
www.gingerandwild.uk

 

Pick of the bunch

Pick of the bunch

Q. We're having a smaller celebration than originally planned because of the restrictions, but still want to make a statement with our flowers. How can we do this?

A. Annabel Grange says: Now that you're having fewer guests, think about re-allocating some of your budget and having large flower displays to ensure the ceremony and reception spaces don't look too empty. Use pedestals, table displays, pew ends, a pair of blossom trees or bay trees and a stunning floral arch. These items can then be moved into the reception room.

Space out your friends and family and use guest tables to display the flowers. Tall arrangements will give a wow factor as you enter the room and you can finish the look with chair hoods, covers or sashes, fairy backdrops, ceiling drapes and garlands.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

 

Snow is falling

Snow is falling

Q. My wife-to-be wants to create a winter wonderland for our December wedding. What flowers do you suggest we look for?

A. Sharon Monk says: Having a winter wedding is exciting for a florist. We can get very creative as there are a wide variety of flowers, foliage and accessories available. You could opt for traditional reds and greens with holly, ilex berries, skimmia, roses, amaryllis, pine cones, willow and ivy. Alternatively, look for crisp, frozen touches with whites and silvers, roses, double lisianthus, anemones, brunia and succulents.

Bridal flow spray roses give the most stunning aroma, combined with eucalyptus and blue spruce befits the festive season. Either of these could be enhanced further by careful use of bark, moss, wooden containers, vases, glassware, candles and additional Christmas-themed ornaments.

Sharon Monk, Longacres Garden Centre
www.longacres.co.uk

 

The roaring '20s

The roaring '20s

Q. We're having a 1920s-inspired wedding and would love to incorporate the era into our decor. What flowers will create a luxurious atmosphere?

A. Annabel Grange says: The 1920s were all about black, white and gold highlights and opulence with sultry lighting. To incorporate the era into your wedding, there's nothing better than feathers. Ostrich versions look amazing as table displays, opt for black and white options set in tall Eiffel vases. Incorporate lights at the base or hang crystal lights from the top to add an extra wow factor.

Another good centrepiece to look out for is candelabra. Opt for tall, black ones decorated with feathers, soft organza material, diamantés and LED candles. Set these on a mirror and scatter crystals and lights, but ensure you don't use naked flames.

Finish the look with table cloths, table runners, jewels, crystals and white chair covers with black sashes.

Annabel Grange, Butterflies and Bows
www.butterfliesandbows.co.uk

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